Lisi & Gabriel s plea to Break Ayed Al-Qarni

ليزي، أم للشاب جبريل بن بريك القرني. جبريل يبلغ عمره 26 عام وأمضى 25 سنة من عمرة بدون أي اتصال او تواصل مع والدة بريك بن عايض بن حنش القرني، أبحث عن التواصل مع القراء للوصول له وإبلاغه بأن ابنة البالغ لدية أسأله يبحث عن أجوبتها لدى والدة.
قصة ليزي:
بريك بن عايض بن حنش القرني، حضر الى جامعة تامبل في ولاية بنسلفينيا فيلادلفيا كطالب في تخصص العدالة القانونية من عام 1981 الى 1986 وتخرج بدرجة البكالوريوس في شهر مايو عام 1986.
كنت ابلغ من العمر 16 سنة عندما التقيت في بريك بن عايض القرني لأول مرة وكان ذلك في صيف العام 1981 وكان ذلك بأشهر قليله قبل بلوغي سن 17. صديقتي واليسكا التي تسكن نفس الحي الذي يسكنه بريك عرفتني اليه. كان يحب ان يناديه الجميع باسم بايريك لتسهيل نطق الاسم. وكانت رخصة قيادته تحمل الاسم بايريك عايض الكرني وفي ذلك الوقت كانت الولايات المتحدة تسمح للطلبة الاجانب بتغيير اسمائهم لتسهيل نطق الاسم وهو غير مسموح الآن لأسباب أمنية.
بدأت بمواعدته، وقضينا الكثير من الوقت مع العائلة والاصدقاء خصوصا في الاجازات، بعد سنة من تخرجي من الثانوية درست المرحلة الجامعية وعندها سألني أن أنتقل للسكن معه وفي ربيع وصيف الأعوام من 1981 الى 1984 كان يذهب لزيارة عائلته في السعودية، لست متأكدة إن كان بالفعل قام بذلك لأنه لم يكن يسمح لي بالذهاب معه الى المطار لتوديعه ولم يكن يتواصل معي ابدا خلال تواجده في السعودية. وايضاً لم يجلب لي هدية سوى مرة واحدة لي ولعائلتي، لقد كان غامضاً ولربما تزوج في السعودية في أحد هذه الرحلات. كنت ساذجة جدا وكان قد غرس الخوف في نفسي من الإساءة جسديا لي. كان غيورا جدا ولم يكن يريد مني التواصل مع أصدقائه، ومع ذلك فإننا في بعض الأحيان نقوم بزيارة اثنين من الأصدقاء المقربين له والذين كانوا أيضا من المملكة العربية السعودية أو كانوا يأتون لشقتنا لتناول العشاء، قررت عدة مرات تركة وأعود الى منزل عائلتي ولكنة كان ينظر لي بأسف وكان يعتذر لي ويقول انه لا يزال يحبني.
غضب بريك كثيرا عندما علم بأنني حامل وطلب مني أن اجهض حملي، لم أكن مقتنعة بالإجهاض وذلك لمعتقدي الديني كمسيحية ولكنني في ذلك الوقت لم أكن متدينة كثيرا ولكن كنت اعلم بما ذكر في الكتاب المقدس بأن الارتباط خارج أطار الزواج هو خطيئة …. ولدت أبني جبريل بن بريك القرني في 13 مايو 1985. بعد عدة أشهر من ولادة ابني اقتنع بريك ولكنة لم يكن كذلك في الواقع …. لقد درب ابننا على المشي قبل أن يكمل عامة الأول. انتهت صلاحية التأشيرة التي منحته اياها الحكومة الامريكية كطالب في شهر مايو من عام 1986 وقبل عودته الى المملكة العربية السعودية بيوم واحد أسمى ابننا عبدالله ووعدني بمساعدتي ماليا في تربية ابني ومساعدتي في دفع نفقاته التعليمية، وايضاً طلب مني التواصل معه في حال اراد ابننا اي احتياجات من اي نوع كانت كالأطعمة او احتياجات خاصة هذه الوعود كانت حزمة من الأكاذيب!!!
وقام بتزويدي برقم هاتف منزلة بالمملكة العربية السعودية وعلمني كيف يمكنني الاتصال به في المملكة العربية السعودية وطلبة باللغة العربية، بعد عدة أيام قررت الاتصال به، بعد الاتصال رد علي رجل وتظاهر بعدم فهم ما اقول وبعدها طلبيت منة ان يوصل الهاتف الى بريك للتحدث معه بخصوص ابننا جبريل ولكنة صرخ بي قائلا وباللغة الانجليزية باني بريك مات مات مات وأغلق الهاتف. ليس لدي أدنى شك بأن الرجل الذي تحدث معي كان هو بريك ولكنة كان يحدثني بصفته شخص آخر.
دمرت حياتي تماما. كنت أواجه مشاكل مالية اعتمدت على المساعدات الحكومية (الرعاية) للأغذية والمساعدات النقدية لذلك لم تكن كافيا لدفع فواتير المرافق العامة وإيجار الشقة وعندها قام مالك الشقة بتغيير اقفالها لعدم تمكني من الدفع وبعدها اصبحت مشردة انا وابني ولكن شكرا لله لقد كان لدي صديقة جيدة (امرأة عجوز) أخذتنا لديها الى ان وجدة شقة ارخص.
خسرت كل شيء، سرير ابني وطعامه و حليبه والعمامة التي كان قد اهداها إياه والدة وخسرت كل الصور التي التقطتها انا وبريك طوال السنين التي عشناها معاً والصور التي التقطناها معا لابننا وصور الإجازة التي قضيناها معا في واشنطن واورلاندو وديزني لاند وخسرت ايضا رقم هاتف التواصل مع بريك. لقد مررت بالكثير من المعاناة والألم لسنوات عديدة بمواجهة حقيقة ان بريك تخلى عن وعودة لابنة لقد كانت آلام ما مررت به عميقة لما فعلة بي وبابني.
لقد كنت مؤمنة دائما بأن ما قام به كان مخططا منذ البداية بأن لا يكون له اي تواصل معي او مع ابنة، وانا لا اتمنى لأي امرأة أن تخوض نفس التجربة والالم الذي مررت به. ولذلك أود أن انبه وبشدة النساء بأن لا يتواصلوا او يقعوا في مواعدة مع اي رجل سعودي لأنهم يفكرون فقط بتعليمهم والعودة للعمل في المملكة العربية السعودية، انصح بذلك إلا إن كان هذا الرجل فعلا يود الارتباط بها في علاقة زواج رسمية وأن يقدمك الى عائلته كزوجة! وإن فعلتي ووقعتي في علاقة مع احدهم فاستعملي الوقاية لتجنب الحمل منه او الانجاب، انه ظلم للطفل أن يعيش دون والد، واعلمي دائما بأن “الوقوع في حب شخص ليس مؤلم ولكن المؤلم فعلا هو التعلق بالشخص الخاطئ” ، الرجل الحقيقي هو من يحميكي دائما وليس من يعاملك بسرية او بالخفاء وسوف يخبر العالم أجمع بأنك متواجدة في حياته بغض النظر عن وجهة نظر عائلته!!! إن ذلك لا ينطبق على الرجال السعوديون فقط بل كل الرجال فالسيء موجود في كل دولة والجيد ايضا في كل دولة، عندما يخبرك شخص بأنه يحبك تأكدي من أن هناك دليل على هذا الحب.
انتي مهمة، ما حدث لي حدث لعدم وجود توجيه من والدتي بالحذر من العلاقات بالرجال حيث كان ذلك من الاحاديث المحرم الحديث بها اجتماعيا ولكنني لا القي اللوم على والدتي في ذلك فهي عاشت في بيئة تحرم ذلك. لقد أتيت من بيئة فقيرة ووالداي من بوتوريكو وهي جزء من الولايات المتحدة، ولذلك كانت ثقافتنا مختلفة عن الثقافة الامريكية منذ سنين عدة ولكن الآن تغيرت تلك العادات واصبحت العائلات اللاتينية انفتاحيه اكثر وتساعد ابنائها في صنع القرارات الصحيحة.
مع الأسف، كنت قاصراً آن ذاك واصبحت ضحية لتلك الأكاذيب، لم يخبر بريك عائلته ابدا عني او عن علاقتنا وعندما انجبت ابني اخبرني بأنه لا يستطيع اخبار اهلة بذلك لانهم سيقتلونه ان علموا بذلك بحكم الشريعة الاسلامية ولكنة اخبرني ايضاً بأنه سيدعم هذا الابن طالما أن اهلة لا يعلمون عنه. لم أحاول أبدا التواصل مع السفارة السعودية بهذا الخصوص لخوفي من ذلك و ايضا لوجود مشاكل مالية. الآن عمر ابني 26 عاما ومنذ ان كان مراهقا كان متعجب دائما مما فعلة والدة ومنذ ذلك الحين وابني يعيش مجروحا عاطفيا ومعنويا وغاضبا دائما بأن والدة لم يحاول حتى التواصل معة او البحث عنة ولكنة الآن يرغب في البحث عن والدة والتواصل معه.

English Translation

Meet Lisi, she is mother to Gabriel Break Al-Qarni.  Gabriel is 26 years old and has spent the last 25 years of his life without any communication from his father Break Ben Ayed Bin Hanash Al-Qarni.  I ask the readers help in getting the post spread to Break Ben Ayed Bin Hanash Al-Qarni and let him know his adult son has some questions to ask of his father.

Lisi’s Story.

Break Ben Ayed Bin Hanash Al-Qarni attended Temple University School of Philadelphia, Pennsylvania on a student visa from 1981 through 1986 and graduated in May 1986 with Bachelor’s degree in Criminal Justice Legal studies.
I was 16 years old when I met Break Ayed Al-Qarni Hanash in the summer of 1981 a couple of months before my 17th birthday.  My friend Waleska who lived in the same neighborhood introduced me to Berik. He wanted everyone to call him Berik for it was  much easier to pronounce his name and on his driver’s license the name shown was Berik Ayed Al-Kerni for at that time the U.S recommended for any student’s that came from another country to change their name that was difficult to pronounce in a american version but no longer U.S. required to change the names due to Homeland Security purposes…
 Well, I started dating Berik and we spent a lot of time together with friends and family, especially on the holidays.  A year after I graduated from High School, I attended college and he asked me to move in with him. During spring break and summer of 1981 through 1984 he went to visit his family in Saudi Arabia, not sure if he actually made these trips to Saudi Arabia for he never asked me to accompany him to the airport and he never called me during his stay in Saudi Arabia. Also, he only brought gifts one time for me and my family.  He was very secretive. Perhaps,during one of these trips he married.
  I was very naive and he instilled fear in me by physically abusing me. He was a very jealous man, he never wanted for me to have any connection with his friends. However, occasionally we would visit his two close friends who were also from Saudi Arabia or they came to our apartment for dinner.  A couple of times I decided to leave him and I returned home to my family but he always looked for me and say that he was sorry for the way he treated me and that he still loved me.
 Break was very upset when he found out that I was pregnant and he wanted me to get an abortion. I did not believe in abortion because of my Christian beliefs but at that time I did not live a christian life for the Bible says it is a sin to have a relationship with a man without being married…..I had my son Gabriel Break Al-Qarni on May 13, 1985. |After a couple of months later after my son’s birth, Break finally accepted his son but in reality he did not…… He also trained our son to walk before Gabriel 1st birthday.  His student visa expired in May of 1986 and a day before his return to Saudi Arabia, he named our son Abdullah and then he promised to provide financial support and to pay for my son’s college education. Also, he stated for me to call him whenever my son needed food and diapers and etc….which it was a bunch of lies!!!!
Then he provided his Saudi Arabia home contact number and showed me how to ask for him in the Arabic language.  After a couple of days I decided to call him and a man answered the phone, he was acting like he did not understand what I was saying, then  I repeatedly asked to speak with Berik in regards to our son, Gabriel Break Al-Qarni and then he yelled at me in english and said, “He is dead! He is dead! He is dead! and closed the phone. I have no doubts that it was him and acted like someone else.  My life was totally ruined. I was having financial problems and I depended on the government (welfare)  for food and cash assistance for it was not enough to pay for apartment and utility bills. Then the landlord decided to changed the locks for I couldn’t pay rent, then me and my son were homeless, but thank God, a good friend (older woman) took us in until I found a cheaper apartment. I lost everything, my son’s crib, diapers, milk, food,our clothes, the turban that Berik gave to Gabriel including all of our pictures that Berik and me took over the years and my son’s baby pictures, vacation photos of Washington, DC and Orlando Disney photos and Berik contact phone number.   I experienced a lot of pain and suffering for many years due to the fact that Berik did not live up to his promises to his son.  It was so cruel and heartless for what he did to me and my son.
I always believed that he was alive and that he planned it from the very start to never have any contact with me or his son. I don’t wish for any women to go through this type of experience. Therefore, I strongly warn women not to date or live with these Saudi Arabia men for in their mind is to study and have a career in Saudi Arabia, unless he really want’s to marry you and he introduced you to his family! Or if it’s not serious do not have any intimate relationship and if you do….. Use Protection! It’s not fair to the child to be fatherless.  Just keep in mind ” Loving a person doesn’t hurt but loving the wrong person does”   A real man will protect you and no matter what he will not keep you in secret. He will tell the whole world that he has you in his life no matter what and it includes his family!!!!It’s not just Saudi men but all men, their is good and bad from any country they come from.  If a man says he loves you and make sure there is proof.
Learn to have high standards of yourself.  You are important! What happened to me was that I was not instructed by my mother to be careful of men for it was a “taboo”  to speak of such things with their children but I don’t blame my mother for it was the way she was raised. I came from a poor background and my parents are from Puerto Rico which is part of the United States, however our culture was different from the Americans many years ago.  But now, the latin families are becoming more openly with their children and teaching them to make the right choices.
Unfortunately, I was a minor at that time and I became a victim of his lies. Berik never told his family about me.  After I had my son he stated he cannot tell his family for they will kill him because of the Sharia’ Law but he said he will support his son as long they don’t about Gabriel.  I never attempted to go to the Saudi Arabia Embassy after Break left out of fear and for financial reasons. Now my son is 26 years old, since his teenage years he wondered about his father. Through out the years my son was and still is  emotionally hurt and angry that his father never attempted to search for him but now he wants to see his father.

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Break Ben Ayed Bin Hanash Al-Qarni
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51 thoughts on “Lisi & Gabriel s plea to Break Ayed Al-Qarni

  1. م/عبدالعزيز الحمدى

    اين رجولة الرجال اتقى الله يارجل وتب اليه وحاول تصحيح الامر لعلى الله يغفر لك فعلتك الحقيره

  2. amina

    حسبي الله عليك
    هذا انتو قدام الناس مسويين فيها تخافون الله
    لكنكم من ورا الناس تسوون بلاوي ياكافي الشر
    الله يراكم

  3. Antithat

    So we catch it
    http://www.3afara.com/vb/showthread.php?t=14275
    act like an important man.

  4. mmmm

    أؤووه !!! عجيب وألله ..أبأ أعرف وش شافت فيك هالغبرييل:/ وكيف قدرت تخدعها مش قادرة استوعب 🙂

  5. rani

    أبوه ضابط في المخدرات عميد

  6. rani

    بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

    الحمد لله الصلاة والسلام على اشرف المرسلين محمد صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم
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    يتجدد بكم اللقاء وتحلو الأوقات وتسعد الأنفس بلقاء أبناء عفراء بلقرن لتزيد معرفتنا بهم عن قرب ولنتعلم من كفاحهم ومن نجاحاتهم وتجاربهم التي بها لمعت أسمائهم في سماء التميّز فضيفنا في هذا اللقاء هو / الأستاذ بريك بن عائض بن حنش القرني رجل من رجال الكفاح والمثابرة، والصبر والجد والإجتهاد، رجل سجل التاريخ إسمه من ذهب وعلم من أعلام بلقرن كرس حياته في طلب العلم .

    والذي تتشرف شبكة عفراء الرسمية بإن يكون لها السبق في هذا اللقاء مع أحد أبناء عفراء الذين خدموا دينهم ووطنهم وكانوا خير ممثلين لقبيلتهم الذي لم يمنعه عمله كمسئول أمن مواصلة دراسته وإحراز النجاح تلو الآخر وأصر وكافح وأجتهد وأهتم بإن يكون جل عمله في مجال التوعيه والإرشاد بأضرار المخدرات فألف العديد من الكتب والكتيبات التوعويه التي سوف نتعرف على المزيد منها من خلال هذا اللقاء الذي نحاول من خلاله أن نتطرق إلى جوانب أخرى في حياته التي تحمل المزيد من النجاحات والتجارب الناجحه.

    أحبتنا أعضاء وزوار ( شبكة عفراء الرسمية)
    أحبتنا … أرخوا مطاياكم هنا
    فستجدون مايسركم بالتأكيد حين تقرأون حروفاً تعبق منها رائحة العلم والفكر ،،
    وتجدون انفسكم…وبلا أدنى شك…
    تصافحون..ذي حرف…شامخ
    وعقل ذي فكر راسخ
    وقلم.. بالعطاء…باذخ
    وحين يكون ضيفكم….من شهِد القلم بفخره..لملازمته
    وختم الحرف…بطابع ..شرف الألتصاق به
    وتفنن المعنى..في رسم أحلى شهادة.تُنسب له…
    فهذا يعني أنكم أمام ضيف ..قدير
    ضيف جعل من مهمة اللقاء به .مهمة صعبة للغاية…
    معكم أرحب بضيفنا الغالي سعادة الأستاذ / بريك بن عايض بن حنش القرني

    بدايةً يسر شبكة عفراء الرسمية أن ترحب بسعادتكم أجمل ترحيب في هذا اللقاء

    بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم والحمد لله والصلاة والسلام على أشرف خلقه محمد بن عبدالله وحياكم الله وبياكم وبارك فيكم وفي جهودكم والله أسأل دوام التوفيق والنجاح لكم .

    في البداية أبا عبدالله لو تعرفنا عن بطاقتك الشخصيه ؟
    الاســـــــــــــم : بريك بن عائض بن حنش آل غنام القرني
    العمــــــــــــــــر : 47 عاماً
    الحاله الاجتماعيه : متزوج ولي من الابناء 7
    الــــــــوظيــفـــــه : رجل أمن

    متى وأين ولدت ؟ وكيف كانت نشأتك؟
    من مواليد عام 1384هـ في منطقة الحجاز- بلاد بالقرن (عفراء) ونشأت في كنف والدي (عائض بن حنش) رحمه الله- وبخاصة في حاضرة الحازمي ببيشه- التي كانت ولا تزال من أهم الأسواق القديمة بحاضرة بيشه..

    الأستاذ الفاضل / بريك بن عايض صف لنا سيرتك الذاتية والعلمية في سطور ؟
    بدأت رحلتى مع العلم من حاضرة الحازمي فدرست بها مرحلتي الإبتدائية والمتوسطة
    أما المرحلة الثانوية فدرستها في بيشة.
    ومن ثم شديت الرحال الى الولايات المتحده الأمريكية وحصلت هناك على درجة البكالوريوس من جامعة Temple un. عدالة جنائية (دراسات قانونية). في عام1406 هـ
    وحصلت على درجة الماجستير من جامعة نايف العربية للعلوم الأمنية ـ تشريع جنائي إسلامي
    أما حاليا فاكمل درجة الدكتوراه في إحدى الجامعات العالمية في مجال القانون

    خبراتك العملية كانت متنوعة في كثير من المجالات بل وفي كثير من المناطق فنرجوا التكرم بأن تعدد لنا أهم المحطات العملية في حياتك ؟
    التحقت بالخدمة العسكرية بعد عودتي من الولايات المتحدة الامريكية مباشرةً وتقلدت بعدها عدد من المناصب ففي عام 1408هـ عملت مساعداً لمدير مكافحة المخدرات بالإحساء وحتى عام 1410هـ.
    ومن ثم إنتقلت إلى مدينة تبوك لأعمل رئيس التوعية الوقائية ورئيس الإدعاء العام بإدارة تبوك للفترة من 1410هـ الى1420 هـ.
    وبعد ذلك مديراً لمكافحة المخدرات بحقل للفترة من 1420هـ ـ 1422هـ.
    ومن ثم أنتقلت إلى منطقة جازان للعمل رئيساً للتوعية الوقائية ورئيس الإدعاء العام ومشرف على غسيل الأموال بإدارة
    جازان للفترة من 1426هـ ـ 1428هـ
    ثم إنتقلت إلى مدينة الرياض كمساعد مدير إدارة التوعية الوقائية بالمديرية العامة لمكافحة المخدرات بمنطقة الرياض للفترة
    من 1/10 /1428هـ ـ 23/12/1428هـ.
    و مـديراً لمركز الـدراسات والبحوث بالمديرية العامة لـمكافحة المـخدرات للفترة مــن
    23 / 12/1428هـ.

    الدورات التدريبة والندوات والمؤتمرات العلمية لها دور بارز في إثراء عدد من الجوانب المعرفية للباحث والمؤلف مالدورات التدريبة والندوات والمؤتمرات التي كان لها الدور الابرز في تنمية مهارتك العلمية والعملية ؟
    أحمد الله عز وجل على توفيقه فلقد حصلت على العديد من الدورات التدريبه داخل وخارج المملكه ومنها:
    1- دورة تدريبية في فرنسا
    2- دورة تدريبية في تركيا.
    3-دورة تدريبية في اليابان .
    4- دورة تدريبية في الإبداع الإداري
    5- دورة تدريبية في المرافعات الشرعية.
    6- دورة تدريبية في القيادة.
    7- دورة إعداد الحقائب التدريبية.
    8 – دورة القبعات السبع في التفكير.
    9- دورة فن الإلقاء وقوة التأثير.

    ما هي اللغات التي تجيدها ومدى استخدامك للحاسب الالي؟
    أجيد اللغه الانجليزيه تحدثا وكتابه .
    كذلك إجادة التعامل مع الحاسب الآلي وتطبيقاته في العمل.

    من خلال خبرتك العلمية والعملية الحافلة بكثير من الانجازات والتنوع في المجال الوظيفي ماهي أهم العضويات والأعمال التي انيطت بك
    أحمد الله عزوجل فلدي الكثير من المشاركات والعضويات ومنها:
    1- المشاركة كمحاضر في العديد من المحاضرات والندوات، على الطلاب والمعلمين،
    والمرشدين الطلابيين، والمرشدات الطلابيات، في المدارس والمعاهد، وكليات
    البنين وكليات التربية للبنات…، في عدد من المناطق في المملكة، وعلى مدى أكثرمن 22 عاماً
    2-المشاركة كمدعي عام ــ والترافع أمام عدد من المحاكم الشرعية في عدد من المناطق
    في المملكة، وعلى مدى أكثر من 22 عاماً.
    3- خبير بالأمانة العامة لمجلس وزراء الداخلية العرب ـ للدراسة التي قدمت في العام
    1418 هـ ، مشاركاً بها كخبير للأمانة العامة لمجلس وزراء الداخلية العرب.
    4- عضو مجلس إدارة جمعية التوعية بأضرار القات.
    5- نائب رئيس لجنة الدراسات والمعلومات باللجنة الوطنية لمكافحة المخدرات.
    6- عضو لجنة البحوث بالجمعية الوطنية الخيرية للوقاية من المخدرات (وقاية).
    7-عضو لجنة التحكيم في مناهج المخدرات بمدينة التدريب بالأمن العام
    8- عضو اللجنة التحضيرية بالجمعية الوطنية الخيرية للوقاية من المخدرات
    (وقاية)…وعضو اللجنة العلمية فيها.
    9 – نائب أحكام في المجالس العسكري.
    10- أحد المدرجين ضمن قاعدة بيانات مركز الملك عبد العزيز للحوار الوطني

  7. Ahmad Alahmad

    Break lives in Jeddahj in Almohamdiah distric, very close to the airport

  8. turki

    he has seven sons now , and he has a lot of money , and more than one big house , i can’t understand why he did that Terrible thing to you , he looks a good man , and many people respect him , Write his name in google you will find his photo with his sons

  9. turki

    Write down his name in Arabic: بريك بن عايض بن حنش القرني

  10. fAdwa

    السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

    dear lisi …thank you for bring your story but why were you on a relationship with him?? you knew he came from another country just for stdying and he will back ! and you should surest before the relationship ..because he wouldn’nt stay there .. are you really loved him or for another needs ??! In my opinion i think you and him get the mistake but you who started ! thank you and I hope to understand my openion:)

    • Dear Fadwa,

      Yes I knew he was from another country but I was only 16 years old , a couple of months before turning 17 years old. I was very young and did not know any better, I had loved Break….i thought it was love…. when you are young you tend to believe everyone. Did not know Break had evil intentions…I believed it was true feelings towards me. If my intentions were of needs, I would have sent him to court after my son was born and ruined his life… and then K.S.A would have taken his scholarship. But I had a very innocent mind and heart, never had anything bad in me to hurt anyone. I believed when he told me ” I will take care of Abdullah ( Gabriel) and make sure I will pay for his needs, food, clothes, diapers, milk and pay for his college” What is wrong with keeping that promise he made. When he made that promise, Break acknowledged his son. But it was all LIES!!!!!
      You can’t compare a mind of a 16 year old girl to man who was much older. And knew how to take advantage of a young girl. A young girl dream is always about getting married and having children and having a loving husband that would treat her like a princess. This is the mentality of a young girl dream. I was living in a dream. Yes I made my mistake based on that dream. But I must say, ” MY SON IS NOT A MISTAKE, GOD GAVE ME MY SON”
      I never imagined that Break would abandon me and our child.

      I love my son Gabriel which it is the name I gave him when he was born. For it is a miracle that he was born for I went through lots of physical abuse caused by that bastard Break!!!
      And did not know I was pregnant for I went on a roller coaster ride when I went to Orlando, Florida with Break at Disney World amusement park.

      Sooner or later Break will pay here on earth and then again later on Judgement Day!

      HEY BREAK I HOPE YOU SEE THIS AND I HOPE YOUR WHOLE FAMILY SEES WHO YOU TRULY ARE..
      FAKE RELIGIOUS BREAK!!! WHO TAKES COVER UNDER THE RELIGIOUS MASK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

      WHAT A PITIFUL MAN YOU’VE BECOME!!!! IT SHOWS ON YOUR PICTURE HOW YOU AGED FOR ALL THE SINS YOU HAD COMMITTED AGAINST ME, YOUR SON AND TO THOSE IN K.S.A..

      • I dont know if being young was the problem Lisi in all honesty these men could charm women of any age. These men set out to deceive the woman they are with and they are good at it. It cracks me up when some one comments didnt you know he had to return to KSA so it is your fault you knew he was leaving. What some dont get is every man on this blog lied his but off to the woman he was with. They promise marriage and a life with the person they love. We were told yes my family knows of you and can not wait to welcome us as wives. Some even lie and say when we get married we can stay in the US together and the family in KSA is accepting of this. You are the only woman he ever wants to be with. These men show us off to the other male saudi students and say this is going to be my wife. EVERY male saudi knows the rules that they cannot marry us and they know the family will never accept us. Do these saudi students ever warn us…nope!! These men help each other con us non saudi women and laugh at us. Love is a game to these men. They brag about what their american girlfriends do for them cleaning cooking …it is funny to them. Then when we become pregnant they close ranks and protect the liar daddy. These men are just as guilty as our children’s fathers.

      • gabrielbreakalqarni

        Yes, Saudi Children Left Behind, thank you for pointing that out to me . Let me rephrase is not just a young girl dream but for all women of all ages to marry and have children with the man they love. .

      • These types of saudi males could sell sand to themselves 🙂 Best charmers in the world!!!

    • Nas nas

      تعليق غبي… الخطاء كله صار عليها؟ يعني هو الشخص الملائكي اللي مايمكن نلومه اذا اخطاء. ماقدر يعف نفسه قبل يسوي فعلته يعني؟ تعليقك يدل على ع
      غباااااائك

  11. Jinan Qahtan

    I hope everything has worked out for you. I wish there was a website in reference for this for my son. My son is being raised without his father. Even though we were married civilly and Islamically, when he decided to leave, he left. I am a Muslim woman, and my ex-husband is from Mauritania which is an Arabic country in the Northwest of Africa. It’s crazy because everybody who meets my son knows he’s from Mauritania. He looks Mauritanian. So far, no justice for my son. I know my ex-husband has remarried, but for some reason he is unable to have children. So maybe this is his punishment from Allaah.

    It’s been a trying time for our little family as well. I hope your father Sayyid Break Ayed Al-Qarni will come to accept you and take full responsibility for his actions. I hope this works out and you and your father can be reunited and the healing process begin.

    To the owner of the group, you are doing a wonderful job. Please keep it up. I hope all these non responsible fathers are brought to justice. It’s okay to be pious, but that will not matter on youm-al Qiyamah if they have not done the basic responsibility which is take care of their family, and their seed is apart of the family.

    I hope all the best. Please know none of you children are alone. There are children from all over the Arab-Muslim world without a father, and by the grace and mercy of Allaah are being provided for. Though it doesn’t take the place of a father, just know some where in this life or in the next these children will get their justice. For the father’s sake, I hope it’s in this life, cause I pity those who will have to see justice in the afterlife.

    My heart and dua’as are with you all.

    feeimaanAllaah.

    Jinan

  12. ابوعبدالله

    تففففففففففف عليك وعلى لحيتك

    • Hey! Abuadullah, you dd not think I will not know what you wrote, listen to me family member of Break,
      Sooner or later you will get a big surprise in front of the whole nation of Saudi Arabia !!!

      • Bashayer

        There is misunderstanding here, the guy Abu Abduallah, meant to spit upon the father not upon you guys. Because the father is pretending that he is a religious man. what he said exactly ” spit upon your beard”

      • Yara

        He kind of said shame on you Break!

    • How old are you? My 4 year old son shows more respect than you. I know it is not your fault you mother never showed you how to be a good man ….sadly seems like your father missed out on that lesson as well. I will give you some motherly advice just remember when you spit upon us be careful the wind doesnt change and blow it right back in the face of the one who deserves it…that would be you.

      • Aijiren

        just to clarify: This Arabic Comment “Spit on you and your beard” was addressed to the Irresponsible father not the abandoned families…

  13. gabrielbreakalqarni

    Thank you Jinan,

    Sorry for what happened to you too! It is a shameful what they do to other women. I just hope this new generation open their eyes and not get involved with these bastards.

    Take care. God Bless you and your son.

  14. ahmed

    Well, first of all there is definitely an advantage to you all whether, your guilty or innocent, old or young always stay aware of what you doing with American friendships;of course no defense.As a result ,I’m actually student in the U.S recently and I have been in the State for more than 2 years, I highly thank allah who gave me the power and patience to myself to stay away from relationships especially with girls;which will be harmful ending for me and never relayed on honestly the most, so people please don’t get too involved if you are not totally responsible for consequences.Also I feel sorry for children who left behind also toward their mams, I hope you all find the right way to justice.

    Thanks,
    Ahmed

  15. Lisi and Gabriel, I wish you the best. It is good that you have written about your pain. You need to vent. My daughter is 32. She is married now to a wonderful man and has children of her own. Both of us have been through a lot of misery and we have both been hospitalized a times for nervous breakdowns. My daughter found her father on Facebook and tried to contact him and he took his picture down. It hurt me to see my daughter lose her mind too. All because of greed. Let me tell you how greedy her father is. He owes me money for his trip from Charlotte to Atlanta to Jacksonville to Tampa in November 1979. Everybody thinks we American women were after these guys for their money. No, I was after him for the money he owed me. I went to ELS with my baby and they totally sided with him. By then he was probably back in Illinois and I think they got him for drunk driving in Utah years later. CSE was after him to pay child support but he never did. He wanted me to be like his wife for 3 years. We went some place in FL that looked like a mosque. I couldn’t stand him that long. He didn’t want me to have the baby. Back then a lot of my friends would have had an abortion but not me. I really loved him and I love my daughter even more. There are times that I still think of him so many years later. I just couldn’t give up my soul. He couldn’t give up his. I hope there really is a God because I gave up the man I loved for Him. Muslims don’t understand that about Christians. We love God too. I tried to tell myself and my daughter that her father left so we could be Americans and be free, that was best for us as females. But really he just is probably afraid. We have to remember that people must live in fear in Saudi Arabia. All we can do is pray for them. Change is up to them not us. That would take courage and they wouldn’t want to change too much and become like us. That’s not what we want. We just want people to apply common sense to how we imagine God to be. He made such a perfectly beautiful world. The sun comes up every morning and the moon shines at night. The waves flow up on the beach. The flowers bloom and the birds sing. Surely such a wonderful God is not lacking in anything including mercy. So Lisi and Gabriel I hope you have good memories too, which I have even in the struggles my daughter and I have been through. They have made us strong. That is only a part of your life. You are more than your father’s son, Gabriel. You are your mother’s son. He taught you to cry but I bet your mother taught you to laugh. You have a lot of life ahead of you. Everything we go through whether its good or bad, happy or sad, makes us the people we are. What you choose to do now as you take a step forward will take you out of the shadow of your father and into the sunshine of your mother’s smile. My love to Lisi and Gabriel.

  16. Hey, I gave that the first thumbs up even if I did write it!

  17. Zahra

    Hello gabreil
    You dont know how ashamed I feel just for being from the same country that these people are from!
    I dont want to blame you, pretty sure you’ve blamed youself a lot. You were young and kind and never thought that guy would be so ugly evil! My advice to you and to your son is to stop trying to contact that person! Trust me being fatherless is much better than being a son for such a father! Now you’ve raised a young guy may Allah bless him for you. I’m sure you’ve faced lots of tiredness and trying to find this evil will just increas them. I’m only thankful for destroying this person’s life cause i’m pretty sure no one now respect him after this plog! Let him carry the fault he did for the rest of his life. And you continue your life happily. Please let your son know that Islam isnt bad it’s just Break isnt a good muslim. As well there are lots of saudis kind and warm-hearted. Salam

  18. sfsf

    حسبي الله ونعم الوكيل عليه

  19. sam

    Dear, gabrielbreakalqarni

    please translate this in English and you will find your ex Bf family location in saudi arabia, for more details chech the link below, thank you

    بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

    تم مساء اليوم الرابع من ايام عيدالفطر المبارك اإفتتاح الإستراحة الخاصة بالعقيد/ بريك بن عائض بن حنش والتي تقع بالمجمعة في عفراء ..

    وقد أعلن العقيد بريك بن عائض امام حاضري هذه المناسبه من وجهاء قبائل الصهب عن فتحه لأبواب الإستراحة لتكون مقراً مجانياً لإجتماعات قبيلة الكرعان في المناسبات الكبرى و إجتماعات قبائل الصهب للأعمال الخيرية وإصلاح ذات البين وذلك كفعل خير عنه وعن والديه ..

    شكر اباعبدالله على ما قدمته0

    http://www.1afara.com/vb/showthread.php?s=f13bdc1fd7ebe526642a83b861f8b56d&t=9303

  20. My name is Mshaari alqarni and I know Break alqarni

    How can I help you ؟

    Connect with me via E-mail
    mshaari_007@hotmail.com

  21. info@awasser.org.sa

    Kingdom of Saudi Arabia
    Riyadh 11623
    P. O. Box: 90560
    Tel: 920004949
    Fax: 92005959
    Int. Fax: 00966-11-2402349
    E-Mail: info@awasser.org.sa

  22. abdullah

    I am soo sad to hear all these stories
    I would be happy if there any way I could help
    my name is Abdullah .I live in Jeddah – saudia Arabia
    we have this TV show call al thamenah (8)
    http://www.facebook.com/mbc8pm
    0096614418266 fax
    8@mbc.net
    for years he was a part of solution in many problem
    they can push things forward and put pressure on these people ..
    I hope u read my post ..god plus you and your son…
    just mail them and send them faxes ,,,make them notice

  23. The Right

    As said before in many occasions, YOU, all mother all over USA must submit copies of all what you have of documents, making them in a big file, separated by hard sheet between each case, to the Saudi Royal Embassy in USA and a copy of the same to be sent to MOFA of Saudi Arabia here. Believe or not, that in less than 2-3 months, your cases ill be solved. Do mention that you are ready for a DNA tests, Attach any photos you have, attach any kind of documents you have, mention all names you met them with our BF then and just wait.
    No need for any thing rather than that. Don’t miss it.
    Regards

  24. Khalid

    Why don’t you guys start a movement in DC and all Local universities? Most of these so called MEN are studying there. There is a big chance other victims are walking through the same tragedy right now.
    Go ahead and start a movement against them and show other females what had happened and warn them!
    Keeping quite is what makes the problem go unheard!
    Thanks

  25. Ebrahim

    DO NOT GIVE UP. You have to contact his family to let them know their SON left his child behined in the USA. I really don’t know how he can sleep at night while his SON far away!!!!!!!

  26. Abrar

    Hey Mrs lisli,
    Can you update if Gabrial met his father !

  27. Aijiren

    A Word of Advice for new victims : a Good Muslim Will never have any physical affair outside the bound of marriage or before Marriage, so if he accepted getting layed without marriage so be afraid about your future as well as your potential child’s future…

    I Apologize in behalf of those “so called” won’t say Saudis but “Muslims”,,,

  28. Mansoor

    My heart is with you and your son.
    I believe the best way is to start a legal process through a local lawyer here .
    It is not going to be easy but it’s worth trying.
    Good luck.

  29. aziz

    the morcoan king raised the issue of Saudi children left with their Moroccan mother with support from thier saudi father so the king issued order to the Saudi embassy to support the child with a monthly allowance of around 800 us $ so only the king can slove this

  30. Feras Alsubhi

    غابرييل انتقل إلى رحمة الله يوم الجمعة الماضي

  31. gabrielbreakalqarni

    IMG_0001.JPG
    My son who was a caring, kind and a loving son and loving father to his daughter Ariella passed away on April 7, 2017. Due to natural causes, a heart attack. We did not know he had a heart condition, coronary artery disease. I thank G-d for allowing me to be his mother for 31 years. As for his Father Break, he was always in G-d hands.
    “Everything that happens in this life it is G-d will ”
    G-d Name is so Holy to spell out, the reason why I write G-d.

    G-d did not allowed for Gabriel to have a relationship with his heartless evil father for it was G-d will.

    I miss my son dearly for he was a good son and a good father to his daughter.

    I thank G-d for His Amazing Grace! His Son Yeshua the Messiah, His Grace that saves! He had mercy for Gabriel and now my son has eternal life. Saved by G-d Amazing Grace. Only G-d is Holy to be worship and praised! Hallelujah! Amen!

    Hebrew Messianic Bible:
    Mathews 5:3 Blessed are the poor in spirit: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven

    Yochanan (John) 11:1 Yochanan 3:15 that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life
    Yochanan 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life.

  32. I know where is he know very well

  33. Shalom

    Hi please remove thank you

    Lisi

  34. Mohammed

    his number and two other ppl they know him very very well
    This guy name is Abdullah ‪+966505368234‬
    And this one is Dafer‪+966505478821‬
    Which brings me to the final guy which is the father and ‪+966505367189‬ this is his number
    This account on Twitter they know him very well you should tell them about what he has done he’s a famous guy
    @Afara_city
    thank me later.
    These contacts you might like all for him and ppl they know him very well…
    Thank me later

    True Knight

  35. Mo

  36. Good women

    00966505367189 >Break 📱 number

    His brothers number :

    ‏00966505368234 > Abdullah
    ‏00966505478821 > Dhafer

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